This expression sounds strange to me and everyone, I think. It may not gramatically correct for this short phrase. I however insist to write it down on this blog.
Our families or friends are surrounding. We always think and care about them at all means. For family case, we stay or were staying together from childhood until now, so it seems we’re getting used to the situation of being together so that it results in missing. However, it’s not always true for other reasons. One might be in hatred with his family life so that he’s out of control and wants to leave so far away from the family. For friend case, I think it’s much similar to the previous one. But the most important thing is understanding. Moreover, to make a good friendship is to understand each other. Friendship in this case refers to all sorts of cases, even it’s more developed than friendship to further stages. We should share each other everything including information, education, and what we possess. Sharing is not necessary in all cases because we may not want our partner to worry about our not good circumstances. That’s why it comes to hidden. In my idea, hidden is not trustworthy, on the other hand. The thing is we should discuss.
Moreover, more than friendship is love relationship. One says to love someone is easy, but to let someone loves us is difficult. Here performance is advantageous. Acting as a good person is not that difficult, but make sure that you’re good or not. Pretending that you’re qualified for someone is normal, hence you should mirror yourself. Showing that you’re concerning and thinking about someone is very hard because it requires times and resources to accomplish. In case we faced problem, we’d better discuss and talk because our partner’d never understood our troublesome, or he/she is not a fortune teller. Believe me, the best way is to talk and discuss rather than just ignore or sending messege.
The above all was just my small comprehension of understanding someone including family and friends. I just conclude with thinking about, sharing, discussing, and talking with, and learning from each other. Because those things are the answer to the defined questions.